CONTROL FREAKS We are all control freaks.   Until we aren’t anymore. I love the movie, “When Harry Met Sally“.   I can’t help myself but at least it’s a conscious decision.  I simply love romantic comedies, “rom-com’s”, because we know how they are going to end.   Love always wins. High Maintenance Been through,

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IS IT TRUE?  It’s a funny thing.   We all want guarantees and all guarantees really, at their very core, have one question that needs to be answered. Is it true? The actual definition of a guarantee is to “provide a formal assurance or promise, especially that certain conditions shall be fulfilled relating to a product, service, or transaction”  [Use a dictionary! LOL]  I get so frustrated

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THE HERO’S JOURNEY As soon as I typed Hero’s Journey the love-hate thing started. I love talking and writing and looking deeper into the myths… but this damn principle about “not influencing” people in the Master Key Experience stops me. Maybe this once… hmmm, maybe?  Maybe just a couple of tips to help or encourage

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Just when we don’t feel like we are making progress on behalf of the members… emails show up and members start to notice their progress.   Whoops.  I guess, like all people, like good parents, ethical CEO’s, facilitators like us, etc., are constantly questioning themselves.  Am I pushing too hard?  Am I not pushing enough?

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THE MENTAL DIET It’s not easy promising people a “pay-off” that will insure success in any venture they attempt.   For a lot of reasons. 1] It sounds like magic… which triggers doubt. 2] If it doesn’t work, for everybody, you lose trust and are dead in the water. 3] It is a prediction about

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TIME TO STEP UP It happens everytime… well, almost everytime… virtually every lesson is “my favorite.” But really… lesson 8, focused on the value and insights into imagination … while quietly expressing that nothing will change without it… I just love… it is my favorite… whoops, there I go again. It wasn’t the first time.

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